Do you see the signs around you? Or are you moving so swiftly through life that you rarely notice the signs at all? It’s not too late. Take a moment right now and get present with what life has to offer. You won’t regret it.

It’s a dangerous game of guilt we play when it comes to others. Pretending that it would be best if we took care of everything that makes us feel uncomfortable.

I hear you and I understand. But even if that is true…a simple perspective shift has the potential to change it all.

This seems so obvious that every time I read it, I literally want to roll my eyes. Like, hello? Yes! Why would I continue to carry things around day in and day out when I have zero ability to control it? And how can I possibly think straight about the things I CAN control when I am holding space for the things I CAN’T?

Getting to a relaxed state of mind isn’t something that easily occurs, which is why we have such a hard time accessing  it. We are literally waiting for the confirmation that now is the time to relax! 

Instead we simply need to learn how to relax during a moment that we are not currently craving it. 

I chose this topic today because I know that it’s relatable. Maybe even more so after a year in this pandemic, but not exclusively. We have constant commentary about wanting to just go. Somewhere. Anywhere. I mean, anywhere but here. Right?

Year end reflection on 2020. How do we clean this muddy slate, so we can start anew?

I thought 2020 would reveal our clearest picture ever, yet could not have anticipated this kind of a ride through time.

I think it’s time we officially getting out of line. Stop working on how to survive and turn the high beams on what’s next: thriving.